{"id":3566,"date":"2020-04-05T09:35:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T09:35:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/?page_id=3566"},"modified":"2020-04-05T09:40:17","modified_gmt":"2020-04-05T09:40:17","slug":"patinajul-prin-viata-familiei-persoanei-cu-autism","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/despre-autism\/patinajul-prin-viata-familiei-persoanei-cu-autism\/","title":{"rendered":"Patinajul prin via\u021ba familiei persoanei cu autism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;\u201c<em>O diminea\u021b\u0103 frumoas\u0103, cu cer senin \u0219i miros de rou\u0103. Soarele dezmiard\u0103 ferestrele timid. Pentru unii ar fi prilej de z\u00e2mbet&#8230; Aici trece neobservat. Pe frigider, e orarul zilei. Organizat din or\u0103 \u00een or\u0103, tronez\u0103 amenin\u021b\u0103tor \u0219i anun\u021b\u0103 un dute-vino prin ora\u0219ul aglomerat. E joi. Luna \u0219i anul nu mai conteaz\u0103. Azi era \u0219i acea programare la medic. Se suprapun. Nu e loc de alegere. Vom men\u021bine programul de terapii. El e mai important. Eu mai pot s\u0103 trag, \u00eenc\u0103 nu am c\u0103zut&#8230;\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Printre orele de terapie, programul de \u0219coal\u0103, sesiuni de logopedie, ateliere de socializare, vizitele la psihiatru \u0219i la psiholog, trec zilele, ve\u0219nic \u00eentr-o alergare. Asemeni unei mingii ce rico\u0219eaz\u0103 dintr-un obstacol \u00een altul, se produce o mi\u0219care continu\u0103 haotic\u0103. Nu e timp de respirat, nici de contemplare, nici pentru strategii. Singur\u0103tatea doare. La fel \u0219i stigma. Las\u0103 urme ad\u00e2nci \u00een sufletul fiec\u0103rui membru al familiei. Dintr-o dat\u0103 societatea este ap\u0103s\u0103toare \u0219i alegi iar izolarea.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Priorit\u0103\u021bi nu mai exist\u0103. Un singur \u021bel exist\u0103 \u0219i acela este \u201erecuperarea\u201d. Deci la atac! Ore, zile, luni, ani&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im, uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne pese, iar universul nostru se face din ce \u00een ce mai mic. Privirea e \u00eendreptat\u0103 doar c\u0103tre acel punct fix! C\u0103lc\u0103m peste ciulini \u0219i suflete. \u00cen lupta nedreapt\u0103, negura \u0219i incertitudinea ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103. Nici un r\u0103s\u0103rit nu ne mai \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103, nici o raz\u0103 nu ne lumineaz\u0103 ziua.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; \u00cen ve\u0219nicele c\u0103ut\u0103ri g\u0103se\u0219ti manuale de interven\u021bii terapeutice, manuale de tehnici, manuale de pedagogie, manuale de diagnostic \u0219i tratament.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103r\u021bi peste c\u0103r\u021bi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Toate menite s\u0103 creasc\u0103 calitatea vie\u021bii persoanei cu autism. A lui! Dar \u00een ce manual scrie despre cum s\u0103 fii p\u0103rintele acelei persoane cu Tulburare de Spectru Autist. Unde g\u0103se\u0219ti informa\u021bii legate de aspectele acestei vie\u021bi? Despre pericolele tale? Nu ale lui! Despre cum s\u0103 respiri c\u00e2nd programul te sufoc\u0103? Unde te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 cum s\u0103 te \u00eentorci la tine, fiin\u021ba aceea care a venit singur\u0103 pe lume? Cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi reg\u0103se\u0219ti lini\u0219tea? Cum s\u0103 ridici privirea c\u0103tre cer, f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 a sim\u021bi presiunea?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Toate acestea nu se g\u0103sesc \u00een nici o carte. Ele trebuie experimentate, descoperite \u0219i tr\u0103ite. A\u0219a cum tr\u0103ie\u0219te fiecare -\u00een sine, pentru sine. <em>S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 sim\u021bi, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi \u0219i s\u0103 te reconstruie\u0219ti. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cuno\u0219ti vulnerabilitatea, s\u0103 cau\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 accep\u021bi ajutor. S\u0103 visezi pentru el, dar mai ales pentru tine. S\u0103 cau\u021bi speran\u021ba \u00eent\u00e2i la tine, apoi la el, apoi la cei din jur. S\u0103 pierzi o zi f\u0103r\u0103 remu\u0219care pentru clipele tale \u0219i pentru zilele lui senine? S\u0103&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Patinajul prin via\u021b\u0103 a membrilor persoanei cu autism este un fapt. Oricare ar fi alegerea f\u0103cut\u0103, traseul este inevitabil. Din aceast\u0103 frenezie, sufletele se modeleaz\u0103 \u0219i se deformeaz\u0103. Chiar dac\u0103 autistul cunoa\u0219te progres \u0219i evolu\u021bie, tu, p\u0103rinte, po\u021bi fi \u00eenving\u0103tor \u0219i \u00eenvins. B\u0103t\u0103lia aceasta f\u0103r\u0103 sf\u00e2r\u0219it are mai multe c\u00e2mpuri de lupt\u0103, iar unul este chiar \u00een interiorul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Pentru toate acele suflete \u00een c\u0103ut\u0103ri, cu empatie,<\/p>\n<p>Andreea Ognean,<\/p>\n<p>Psiholog Clinician<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;\u201cO diminea\u021b\u0103 frumoas\u0103, cu cer senin \u0219i miros de rou\u0103. Soarele dezmiard\u0103 ferestrele timid. Pentru unii ar fi prilej de z\u00e2mbet&#8230; Aici trece neobservat. Pe frigider, e orarul zilei. Organizat din or\u0103 \u00een or\u0103, tronez\u0103 amenin\u021b\u0103tor \u0219i anun\u021b\u0103 un dute-vino prin ora\u0219ul aglomerat. E joi. Luna \u0219i anul nu mai [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":10,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-3566","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3566"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3566\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3570,"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3566\/revisions\/3570"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/10"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/autismancaar.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}